“Relationships based on self-fulfillment rather than self-denial require a low- or no-maintenance partner who meets your needs while making almost no claims on you. Simply put—today people are asking far too much…” Tim Keller in Relevant Magazine. The principle’s in this article are far bigger than marriage. We want to get without giving in our jobs, marriages, churches and ministries. Give it a read and let the idea that everything worthwhile in life takes effort spread like a virus in your soul.

http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/relationship/features/27749-you-never-marry-the-right-person